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The One
“You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens” - Rumi
Is there such a thing as “the one”?
Yes and no.
Life is not black and white - it’s coloured with context.
Approach life with a curious mind and an open heart, and you’ll be more fluid in your appreciation for what’s truly possible.
I’m reminded of a beautiful piece I recently read by Cleo Wade:
We all know someone or have heard stories of people who meet during high school, get married and stay together. However, if that isn’t you that doesn’t mean you’re a failure. Even if you find someone and it isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re with the wrong person.
What if each person who crossed your path romantically was your one?
What if they were all soul mates at different stages in your life based on what you needed at that time?
What if they came along at the perfect time to teach you something different about love?
What if each person hasn’t been a waste of time, but instead taught you something about love and about yourself?
What I’ve come to realise is that recognising the right partner at a particular stage in life and having a healthy relationship with them comes down to understanding your definition of love and evaluating the relationship you have with yourself - because that will dictate everything you’re attracted to.
You may have intentionally or unintentionally closed off your heart after it has been broken so many times in the past.
Most peoples heart become like a tundra (a permanently frozen part of Earth’s surface). They become immune to giving and receiving love fully because of their traumatic past experiences. They’re afraid to get hurt again.
Don’t let your cloudy past stop you from having a colourful future.
Stop beating yourself up for choosing to open your heart in the past. Choosing love takes courage, and that’s something to be proud of. At least you took a chance.
“Nothing lasts forever, so live it up, drink it down, laugh it off, avoid the drama, take chances & never have regrets, because at one point everything you did was exactly what you wanted.” – Marilyn Monroe
We all carry expectations and stories based on our previous conditioning. This could be influenced by parents, social media, movies, friends, society etc. It forms our limited lens on life and it’s our responsibility to break free from our pursuit of perfection to really be able to taste love in a new way.
In reality, there is no such thing as a “perfect partner”.
To be human is to be imperfect.
There comes a time when you have to pause, breathe, and evaluate who you are and what you value before you go on living the same loop in life.
As you grow and evolve to understand yourself better, your definition of love will also change.
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