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Bansi Pattni's avatar

Very insightful! Thank you for sharing Vipul 😊

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Vipul Bhesania's avatar

Thank you for taking the time to read Bansi! Was there anything in particular that stood out?

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Bansi Pattni's avatar

You’re welcome Vipul, 2 things stood out the bit about what masculinity should look like which is being humble and acknowledging we are all human. As a woman growing up I was always taught and conditioned to think that a masculine man is assertive, aggressive and confident and that these qualities were desirable. Until I had a “ah ha” moment when I was in a relationship. Although he was a lovely guy his aspiration was to be assertive and more confident. I loved him just the way he was understanding, supportive and caring but somehow he was led to believe by those around him that he wasn’t masculine enough. That’s when I realised masculinity has been skewed by society when in fact masculinity is a pure divine energy with a service.

The other bit is about love and the invisible unsevered umbilical cord. There are so many people out there who are with their partners they didn’t really pick but because of this unsevered umbilical cord, they are living an unauthentic life.

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Grace Drigo's avatar

Excellent article 🩵 will share with my son

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Vipul Bhesania's avatar

Thanks Grace! That’s amazing that you’re going to share with your son. Grateful. 🙏🏽

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Hannah Wallace's avatar

Wonderful read my love, proud of you ! xxxxxxxx

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Vipul Bhesania's avatar

Thank you baby 🥰

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